December 24, 2009
- What to Do if Your Dude Can’t Get it Up
This is a question I get all the time. Women are frustrated because their partner, for one reason or another, can’t get an erection, but they don’t know how to approach the situation without making their partner feel bad. Both people in the situation are left feeling a little awkward, embarrassed, and guilty.
Maybe some of [...]
December 7, 2009
- How to Love Your Breasts
Ok, so maybe you want bigger breasts. Or maybe you think they’re too big as they are. Maybe you wish your nipples were a little bigger. Or a little smaller? More pink? Less inverted?
Ahhh, welcome to the world of women complaining about their breasts. Yes, some women are endowed with the perfect pair-or better yet, [...]
August 23, 2009
- How to Deal with PMS and PMDD
You can deal with the cramps. You can deal with the bloating. And you can deal with some moodiness during the one week pause of using birth control pills. But you can’t (and you shouldn’t have to) deal with depression associated with getting your period.
If you suffer from extreme premenstrual syndrome (PMS) or premenstrual dysphoric [...]
July 27, 2009
- How to Fulfill Your Guy’s Threesome Fantasy…Without Having a Threesome
Everybody’s got sexual fantasies—they range from tame (“Let’s try doggie style tonight.”) to risqué (“Let’s invite that cute bartender to join us later.”). Exploring each other’s fantasies can be a great way to spice up your sex life, as well as to get to know each other better and build stronger bonds of trust. But [...]
July 20, 2009
- Tips To Make Your Gyno Visit Go Smoothly
Ah, the dreaded visit to your gynecologist. I’d be lying if I said that it’s no big deal. No women (that I know of) enjoys those stirrups, baring it all, being poked and prodded down there, and having to worry about test results. But alas, it’s something we all need to go through, at least [...]
July 19, 2009
- Nice Girls Can Have Anal Sex, Too!
Yes, it’s true. Just because anal sex has been taboo until now, doesn’t mean that you need to be uncomfortable with it. Try and focus more on how exotic this act can be rather than on the unpleasant aspects of penis/butt penetration.
Let’s continue our conversation from last time and address women’s two major hesitations:
First, anal [...] - Why Women are Resistant to Anal Sex
Do you cringe when someone mentions anal sex? Does the idea of his hard on ramming into your butt give you the eeby-jeebies? Do you get embarrassed just thinking about him going in where your poop comes out?
Well, the good news, is that you’re not alone. Lots of women—maybe even most women—have negative associations with [...]
July 16, 2009
- Anal Sex: Health Risks and Safety Tips
So you want to get down and dirty with some backdoor action but aren’t sure about the risks? While anal sex is still considered to be an exotic and taboo sexual activity, for many couples, it is also considered to be a safer alternative to traditional vaginal sex. Is this assumption correct? Let’s look at [...]
July 15, 2009
- Dating and Herpes, part 2
In the event that you have genital herpes and your partner doesn’t, you still have some excellent options when it comes to protection. A condom should always be your first line of defense, though its shortcomings are a little more noticeable when it comes to herpes. Genital herpes tends to have outbreaks around the entire [...]
- Dating and Herpes, part 1
Finding out you have genital herpes can be a bummer. But it doesn’t have to spell the end of your social life! Dating and herpes don’t have to be mutually exclusive. Many people are out there actively dating with genital or oral herpes. Here are some ways for you to deal.
Make sure to tell your [...]
July 12, 2009
- Getting the cold shoulder in bed? Maybe there’s a problem…
If you find that you initiate sex most of the time and that sometimes when you do, your guy comes off as being less than interested, it could be that he’s got a sexual problem that he’s simply avoiding. It could be a lack of testosterone which is making his libido nosedive, or he could [...]
July 8, 2009
- Enhancing Your Sex Life Online
I’m not talking about cyber sex here — that was so 1990s — I’m talking about buying sex-enhancing drugs and treatments for sexual dysfunctions online. I once mentioned Womera and Sure Romance as good options for boosting a women’s libido, and of course we know for men there are great ED treatments out there that [...]
July 6, 2009
- Are You Ready For A Threesome?
If you are considering inviting a third party into your bed, then the first thing you need to ask yourself and your partner is: Are you ready for a threesome?
Pros of a threesome:
• Just the thought of this exotic ménage à trios is enough to turn on some people (usually guys first – it takes [...] - The Bigger Breasts Dilemma
I have a friend who recently had her breast implants taken out. All through her teens and twenties she wished she had bigger boobs, finally got them in her thirties, and then very soon afterwards realized that they didn’t make her any more sexually attractive and didn’t stir any extra sexual arousal in her partners. [...]
- Your Private Guide to Oral Sex, part 2
…You’ve teased him, you’ve made him wild, you’ve made him beg to be put out of his misery. And so now it’s time to do just that. Here’s how to give your guy a blow job that’ll leave him in awe and in ecstasy.
Tip #5: Ease him in slowly…
He is totally aroused and his erection [...] - Your Private Guide to Oral Sex, part 1
Learn the ins and outs and ups and downs of pleasuring your guy orally. Use these helpful tips next time you go down on your man and he’ll be blown away (literally).
Tip #1: Be Confident!
When you’re giving a guy head, he is at your mercy. Take advantage of these moments by showing him who’s in [...]
July 5, 2009
- Some Facts about Orgasms and How to Ensure you Get Them
Did you know that less than 50% of women climax from sexual intercourse, but that more than 95% can achieve an orgasm from clitoral stimulation?
Did you know that more than 50% of women admit to having faked an orgasm at one point or another, if not on a regular basis?
Did you know that the common [...] - Four Ways to Boost a Droopy Libido
If you’re having trouble getting sexually aroused or are feeling a drop in sexual pleasure, then these six things could help you:
1. Get yourself in the mood – Just before your man comes over, get into some sexy lingerie, put on romantic music (Latin music is great for getting ready), light some candles, and pour [...]
July 2, 2009
- Everything You Need to Know about a Yeast Infection
What causes a yeast infection? How is it treated? Is it contagious? Can I have sex if I have a yeast infection?
A yeast infection can be an unpleasant sort of thing, but with the proper attention and knowledge about them, you can be infection-free in no time. Lets get down to the nitty gritty detail.
A [...] - Birth Control 101: The Pill
With so many options out there it’s hard to know where to start. Use this guide to get you started in your search for the perfect pill.
First, who should use oral contraception, or “the pill”?
If you are having sex on a regular basis, then you may consider getting a prescription for birth control pills. If [...]