December 24, 2009
- What to Do if Your Dude Can’t Get it Up
This is a question I get all the time. Women are frustrated because their partner, for one reason or another, can’t get an erection, but they don’t know how to approach the situation without making their partner feel bad. Both people in the situation are left feeling a little awkward, embarrassed, and guilty.
Maybe some of [...]
August 28, 2009
- Fun Ways To Get Over Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile Dysfunction can be a frustrating condition. First of all, there’s the name. I mean, who wants to have erectile dysfunction? It sounds serious, like your penis is exploding, rather than being exactly what it is – a minor condition, that’s possibly in your head. Here are a couple of ideas to try.
Erectile Dysfunction (isn’t [...] - Sexual Performance as a Couple’s Issue
Think about the last time you underperformed in bed. If you’re like most people with erectile dysfunction, the problem started happening only occasionally. It’s a common occurrence, and could happen to anyone. You’re in bed, you’re strong as a rock down below, and suddenly Mrs. Peterson, your fourth grade math teacher, pops [...]
August 20, 2009
- How to Unleash His Fantasies without Getting Uncomfortable
He’s hinted to you that he’d be interested in spicing things up a bit. In the heat of the moment he’s whispered into your ear how sexy it would be if he could watch the sex scene you’re currently acting out on screen later. You can tell he’s itching to turn your nice sex life [...]
July 22, 2009
- How to Get Him to Pleasure You
Some guys know exactly what buttons to push, which ear lobe to nipple, the exact right way to graze your breasts, and just what to whisper into your ear. Other guys…well…they need a bit more guidance in the area.
If your man is clueless as to what toots your horn and what doesn’t, these tips may [...]
July 19, 2009
- Nice Girls Can Have Anal Sex, Too!
Yes, it’s true. Just because anal sex has been taboo until now, doesn’t mean that you need to be uncomfortable with it. Try and focus more on how exotic this act can be rather than on the unpleasant aspects of penis/butt penetration.
Let’s continue our conversation from last time and address women’s two major hesitations:
First, anal [...]
July 16, 2009
- Anal Sex: Health Risks and Safety Tips
So you want to get down and dirty with some backdoor action but aren’t sure about the risks? While anal sex is still considered to be an exotic and taboo sexual activity, for many couples, it is also considered to be a safer alternative to traditional vaginal sex. Is this assumption correct? Let’s look at [...]
July 15, 2009
- Dating and Herpes, part 2
In the event that you have genital herpes and your partner doesn’t, you still have some excellent options when it comes to protection. A condom should always be your first line of defense, though its shortcomings are a little more noticeable when it comes to herpes. Genital herpes tends to have outbreaks around the entire [...]
- Dating and Herpes, part 1
Finding out you have genital herpes can be a bummer. But it doesn’t have to spell the end of your social life! Dating and herpes don’t have to be mutually exclusive. Many people are out there actively dating with genital or oral herpes. Here are some ways for you to deal.
Make sure to tell your [...]
July 6, 2009
- The Bigger Breasts Dilemma
I have a friend who recently had her breast implants taken out. All through her teens and twenties she wished she had bigger boobs, finally got them in her thirties, and then very soon afterwards realized that they didn’t make her any more sexually attractive and didn’t stir any extra sexual arousal in her partners. [...]
July 5, 2009
- Some Facts about Orgasms and How to Ensure you Get Them
Did you know that less than 50% of women climax from sexual intercourse, but that more than 95% can achieve an orgasm from clitoral stimulation?
Did you know that more than 50% of women admit to having faked an orgasm at one point or another, if not on a regular basis?
Did you know that the common [...] - Four Ways to Boost a Droopy Libido
If you’re having trouble getting sexually aroused or are feeling a drop in sexual pleasure, then these six things could help you:
1. Get yourself in the mood – Just before your man comes over, get into some sexy lingerie, put on romantic music (Latin music is great for getting ready), light some candles, and pour [...]
July 2, 2009
- How to Talk to Your Partner about Erectile Dysfunction
This is a tough situation for everyone involved. Erectile Dysfunction (ED, or impotence) is a condition whereby men are unable to perform sexually due to an inability to achieve or maintain an erection. When ED enters a relationship, it can take a serious toll on both partners, emotionally and physically.
Here are some tips that will [...] - Bedroom Talk No-Nos
It’s good to share your thoughts with your partner in bed, to give tips and encouragement and to yell out in ecstasy when he’s done something exactly right. While sexual communication is important in bed, it’s also good to know when you’ve gone too far. Here are a few tips about what should be avoided [...]
June 30, 2009
- Your Private Guide to Anal Sex
Interested in trying something new? Do you have burning questions about the how-to’s of anal sex? Backdoor booty is a great way to add an exotic kick to your sack sessions; you just need to make sure you’re doing it safely.
First, make sure you discuss the option openly with your guy – you don’t want [...] - The Have-You-Been-Tested-Lately Dilemma
It’s important to you that the guy you’re about to sleep with has been tested for HIV or STDs, but how do you go about asking him without ruining the moment or seeming distrustful?
This can be a very tricky situation, so it’s better to deal with it head-on rather than beat around the bush. The [...]
June 29, 2009
- How to Fix a Sex Faux Pas
You may be an experienced lover who’s generally smooth as buttah, but that’s not to say that there won’t be occasional hiccups, slip-ups, or downright awkward situations where you’re at a total loss of what to do.
That’s where a good dose of sexual etiquette and grace can come into handy. Basically, what you’ll need is [...]