Too Tight or Just Right?

Everyone’s got a women’s health concern. While guys are off fretting about penis size, women are left to worry about whether or not their vaginas are tight enough.

Well worry no more, ladies, because the difference in tightness between one vagina and another is miniscule. Consider yourselves lucky – you can actually see if a penis is on the smaller side; but no one is measuring up your vaginal opening. So take a deep breath, and relax – no one is judging you.

If a guy is going to notice anything, these are likely to be his options: A little too roomy, just a wee bit tight, and just right.

If your guy decides to have a Goldilocks attitude and notices that there’s a little too much space between his penis and the walls of your vagina, it’s probably more because his penis is a bit narrow, rather than on account of a large vagina. Very rarely are women’s vaginas so big that it makes a difference pleasure-wise.

If this is still something that concerns you, it could just be that your pelvic floor muscles aren’t quite toned enough. To strengthen these muscles, thereby making the overall area feel a bit tighter, you can do some Kegel exercises. Throughout the day, do series of ten or more pelvic squeezes – it’ll feel similar to trying to stop the flow while peeing. Practice this move while you’re having sex and you’ll not only feel yourself tighten around his member, but will be getting a great pelvic workout as well. The payoff to Kegels during sex? Intense orgasms and pleasure for two!

A snug fit is ideal, but a vagina that’s too small can lead to a lot of discomfort during sex. You’ll know if your vagina is too tight because your man will have trouble penetrating and you will likely be in a lot of pain. Having a vagina that is too small is also rare, but if you find yourself wishing there were a bit more room, you can talk to your doctor about possible stretching methods.